Is It True Love? Finding the ‘One’ Without Looking for Them

2/15/2020 26 Comments

Finding Love Through God

Every man and woman who enters into marriage always dreams of having a blissful married life that will last until death. Although it does not always happen, it is achievable. For one, this can be achieved if you happened to marry a prudent man or woman; otherwise, the relationship would surely be shaky and troublesome.

The question is, how can you find a prudent spouse?

If you are going to search for a partner in life or for a spouse using your own standards, chances are, your search might be in vain. Or perhaps, the spouse that you’ll find is not really prudent. Why?

PROVERBS 19:14 (KJV) says,

House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD.

A prudent spouse comes from God. And you will be able to determine that he/she comes from God if he/she upholds and abides by the teachings of God.

2 TIMOTHY 3:17 (KJV) says,

That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works.

The people of God are thoroughly taught of all good works. That being the case, you can be sure that they can be prudent husbands and wives when they get married.

Yes, it is very possible to find a prudent husband or wife. Just be patient enough to wait. And when the right time comes, you’ll be able to meet somebody who fears God and puts great importance to His teachings.

Do not marry a drunkard; do not marry somebody who is laden with all kinds of vices; do not marry a person who is ill-tempered and is easily provoked to anger. Actually, God does not even want you to associate or have a relationship with ill-tempered and furious persons.

PROVERBS 22:24-25 (KJV) says,

24 Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shall not go:
25 Lest thou learn his ways, and get a snare to thy soul.

Instead of befriending or associating with them, God wants you to avoid them, especially those who have bad temper and have the tendency to be violent and disrespectful. If you marry such a kind of person, you might just end up being abused, physically and verbally.

It is best not to jump into marriage hastily for you not to suffer in the end. Wait for the prudent person that God will give you. Always remember that a God-given spouse is prudent – he/she is without any vices, and he/she heeds to the teachings of God. And with that person, you could have a blissful and lasting marriage.


  1. True love waits;thus, comes from God 🥰


  2. definitely true.
    A lesson in life that could guide a person who wanted to enter marriage.
    Thanks be to God to His teaching.

  3. It's true love when God tells to your heart ♥️

  4. aaawwwww very inspiring! still hopefull! in God's will!
    Thanks be to God!

  5. Indeed, a prudent man or a woman spouse comes from God. Prudent spouses will result to a blissful and long lasting marriage. Thanks be to God!.

  6. Mr. Controversy is again right in his Biblical views about marriage. Indeed, it is not wise to have a partner in life just because one is pressured by his/her peers, family and friends.

    GOD will give what one really needs and will make him or her a better person, not just for the sake of having a partner.

  7. Thanks be to God for this wonderful topic ❤️��

  8. Thanks be to God for this blessed advice

  9. Thanks be to God, To God be the Glory

  10. Thanks God to have a preacher like you bro. Eli..❤️❤️❤️

  11. The best guide to have if you're planning to enter into a relationship is God's word from the bible.

  12. Amen :) Thanks be to GOD for the teachings that came from the word of GOD in the Bible that gives us a guidance.

  13. every couple should follow the advice in this blog for them to have a blessed life together, thanks be to God may the author of this blog publish more educational blogs like this, to God be the glory!

  14. So inspiring! Thanks be to God.

  15. He will give if needed na tlaga in His perfect time... Lingap Niya yun. Thanks be unto God...

  16. patiently waiting for true love ika nga po.... salamat sa Dios

  17. Thanks be to God🙏🏼🙏🏼

  18. Salamat po sa Dios sa mga paalala 😍